I saw Drew Barrymore on Oprah’s Life Class. She was talking about her wedding and the person in her life who helped out with all the little details, like seeing that the girls’ dresses looked good, etc. She called her the MVP, most valuable player.
That is what you need to think about as you plan your wedding. After all the planning and selection of every detail, you need someone experienced to help you get through the day. I love being the MVP and helping with everything imaginable.
The last wedding I worked was in a very old house, which has not been wired for the three-pronged electrical appliances. Did the bride need to know that her coffee and hot chocolate couldn’t be served in that room because there was no way to heat it? I can handle lots of little things like that, and the wedding party doesn’t need to know.
The bride was going to make her entrance down a beautiful staircase. It just wouldn’t have been half as special if all the bridesmaids came in that way first. We were able to bring the wedding party down by the servant’s stairs, and hold them in place until we could get the guests seated, without the guests seeing too much of the pageantry of the event in advance.
Do the bride and groom know what I do for those three-four hours leading up to the wedding? They mostly do not, but when everything runs smoothly and the wedding of their dreams comes off without a hitch, I am happy, knowing that the details were handled so that they could enjoy their friends and family.
You are worth it. You deserve one day when someone else worries about every little thing, and you can have an opportunity to just experience joy.